Pumpkin Spice & Practice Nights: Embracing the Season You’re In
๐ Pumpkin Spice & Practice Nights: Embracing the Season You’re In
There’s a chill in the air, the leaves are turning, and your trunk now doubles as a mobile equipment locker. It must be fall sports season.
The mornings are crisp, the afternoons are packed, and the evenings are spent under field lights, wrapped in a blanket, cheering on a kid you love more than life itself—even if they spent the whole first half staring at the clouds.
This is not the season of rest. It’s the season of 7:30 a.m. game times, last-minute snack duties, muddy cleats, and somehow always forgetting the one thing you actually needed to bring. But in the middle of the chaos, this season also brings something unexpected: growth—not just for our kids, but for us.
๐ Patience, in All Its Messy Glory
Fall sports will test your patience in ways you didn’t know possible. Whether it’s tying wet shoelaces in the freezing dark, watching your child chase butterflies instead of the ball, or surviving one more post-practice meltdown—you’ll be stretched.
And yet, something beautiful happens: You start to slow down. You start to breathe through the chaos. You learn to stop expecting perfection and start celebrating progress, however small. You realize that the early mornings, while exhausting, won’t last forever.
๐งก Teamwork—On and Off the Field
As you shout encouragement from the sidelines, you realize the game isn’t just teaching your child about effort and grit—it’s teaching you how to lean on others, too. You form sideline friendships, carpool partnerships, and group chats that become lifelines.
You learn that motherhood doesn’t have to be done alone. That being “part of a team” applies to us, too. That showing up, even tired and unshowered, still matters. And that other moms are just as caffeine-fueled and slightly overwhelmed as you are.
❄️ How to Keep Warm… and Keep Your Cool
Those early Saturday games? They’ll humble you. It’s barely sunrise, the dew has soaked through your socks, and you’re wondering why humans even invented sports.
But then, your kid looks over at you—just for a second—and smiles. Or they run off the field, cheeks red from the cold and the thrill of trying, and you’re there to catch them in a blanket hug. You remember why you do this.
You keep your cool in ways that surprise you. You stop caring if their team wins and start focusing on whether they’re having fun, learning, growing. You trade yelling from the sidelines for quiet encouragement and slow claps and post-game hot chocolate.
๐ Embracing This Season, Exactly As It Is
Fall is short. So is this season of motherhood.
There will come a time when the cleats no longer clatter through your house, when your Saturdays are quiet, when the car is clean and the blanket never leaves the trunk. And you’ll miss this—the mess, the movement, the meaning tucked inside it all.
So embrace it:
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The long practices that give you a chance to breathe.
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The muddy shoes that mean your child is learning to play hard.
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The chilly games that remind you how warm it feels to belong—to a team, to a moment, to your child’s journey.
This fall, may you find the beauty in the busy. May the pumpkin spice keep you warm, the sideline friendships keep you sane, and may your heart stay open to every lesson the season has to offer.
Because yes, it’s chaotic.
But it’s also sacred.
And it’s yours.
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